OK, why not.
1) why do women not always call it a date when scheduling a meeting with a guy, but the guys always see it as a date?
Actually, I hear it more from the other side that men would rather "hang out" than women so perhaps women are picking up on that lingo and saying they want to hang out first. Besides, it's lower pressure. Or perhaps the guy is not communicating well enough that it is a "date" - I've had that happen before too. But definitely when doing online dating, the first time I meet a guy is NOT a date, it is a meet. To me, it is more like a first job interview. It's a trial run to see if there is any compatibility. I will not kiss them and there will likely be no romantic gestures. To me, it's more of a "safety net" to ensure I don't get the cart before the horse.
2) do women have fantasies of gay guys like how men have fantasies of lesbians?
Not me or any women I know. Men are visual and the thought/picture of two women together is "hot" to them. Women are not so visual and the thought/picture of two men together does not in any way turn me on.
3) why do some women say that they don't like to be approached by men when they absolutely love the ego boost?
I have no idea because again, I don't know a single woman who doesn't like to be approached by a man. Perhaps some women like to pick the guy rather than have the guy pick them so they get what they want rather than some bozo picking them up at a bar. But it sounds like an excuse to me.
4) why is it that on the online dating sites, for women seeking men, they are "looking for someone to hang out with" on their profiles, but for women seeking women, they are more likely to say that they are "looking for intimate encounters"?
I can't speak for lesbians, but "intimate encounters" means sex, not relationships. So perhaps the women seeking women are more free in what they are looking for and want more of a sexual thing while heterosexual women prefer to take the "wait and see" approach and start with the "hanging out" and see if something develops.
5) why is there so much pressure by society for a women to not "be a slut", and at the same time, so much pressure by society for a man to lose his virginity?
Because that is the way society has been for hundreds of years. Despite the sexual revolution, there is a double standard even today.
6) why are women so into horoscopes? I have a friend (a girl) who thought of getting a tatoo of her zodiac sign
Who knows, but for many women it's fun. Probably the same reason more women go to psychics and all that stuff. Women like to "know" what is going on. Since men often don't communicate what is going on, they turn to horoscopes and psychics to "predict" the future.
7) what's with the articles on seducing men by their zodiac sign???
Again for fun. Obviously people are very different, but whether it is some kind of self-fulfilling prophecy or because those descriptions of "signs" are so generalized or whether there is some truth behind it or just some huge coincidence - often I find that people in a specific zodiac sign DO seem to have those characteristics. I doubt that those articles have any kind of huge revelations - probably the "tricks" for seducing a specific sign would work on anyone, not just that zodiac sign.
