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Are classic fairytales to harsh for kids?

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02-21-2012 02:13 AM

The Surprising Bedtime Story Decision Parents Today Are Making

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Are classic fairytales to harsh for kids?

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02-21-2012 02:13 AM

The Surprising Bedtime Story Decision Parents Today Are Making

http://www.ivillage.com/parents-say-classic-books-are-too-scary-kids/6-a-428031

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I don't know.  I was told fairy tales when I was growing up, and I was never scared of them.  I didn't realize just how weird they are until after DD was born.  I remember this Mother Goose book I had growing up.  I loved the rhymes, and the cover was so distinct that I was really surprised when I found a copy of it in a local bookstore not too long ago.  I purchased it, took it home, and was flipping through the book.  The photos were just as I'd remembered, but some of the rhymes were really twisted!  I'll have to go find it and share a few.  Even some of my favorites had parts that were kind of disturbing!

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I think children might not grasp second degrees in stories as much as adult do, which could explain why parents find it now harsh to read certain stories to kids, probably not fully remembering that as kids they didin't find it cruel, weird or scary themselves.

I remember reading stories as a kid and never really giving a second thought about them, until I entered highschool and learned about symbolism and metaphor. The little red riding hood is one of these famous example, the kid only reads a story about a girl who end up talking to the bad wolf against her mother's warning, get tricked into taking the long way to her grand ma's home and then end up being eaten.
The hidden symbols and second degree actually tells a tale of how a girl should be careful about sexual offenders and rapist, the kid obviously doesn't get that part, but reading the tale in litterature class as a Highschool senior bearing in mind the hidden message...hell yeah it is indeed just that on a second degree!

 


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