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librarunnr
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Registered: 11-11-2011

Grrrr....

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02-20-2012 03:31 PM
Am I the only one who fights just as much with her AP as has good times with him???
Seems we are always arguing nowadays. He can be inconsiderate and thoughtless and I guess I'm just not the type of gal to let these things go. Seems we start to talk about a subject and before I know it we are going back and forth, one upping each other and bringing up the past.
I get so angry with him. I think both of us feel like we do a lot for the A and the other doesn't appreciate it.
We are just in a funk.
Help. Am I the only one who experiences this? Any advice??
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librarunnr
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Registered: 11-11-2011

Grrrr....

1 Post
02-20-2012 03:31 PM
Am I the only one who fights just as much with her AP as has good times with him???
Seems we are always arguing nowadays. He can be inconsiderate and thoughtless and I guess I'm just not the type of gal to let these things go. Seems we start to talk about a subject and before I know it we are going back and forth, one upping each other and bringing up the past.
I get so angry with him. I think both of us feel like we do a lot for the A and the other doesn't appreciate it.
We are just in a funk.
Help. Am I the only one who experiences this? Any advice??
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lannmann
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Registered: 10-18-2009

librarunnr wrote:
Am I the only one who fights just as much with her AP as has good times with him???
Seems we are always arguing nowadays. He can be inconsiderate and thoughtless and I guess I'm just not the type of gal to let these things go. Seems we start to talk about a subject and before I know it we are going back and forth, one upping each other and bringing up the past.
I get so angry with him. I think both of us feel like we do a lot for the A and the other doesn't appreciate it.
We are just in a funk.
Help. Am I the only one who experiences this? Any advice??

Does it matter if others in an A have the same experience or not? No relationship should be like that, A or non-A. Advice?

Either agree to forget about the past and be respectful of each other, or just call it off.

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